How to Stay Mentally Strong (Even When It Feels Impossible)
Let's be honest—this journey is hard. The wait times, the exams, the uncertainty, the comparisons, the self-doubt... It's mentally exhausting. But here's the truth: you can handle it. You don't need to be fearless. You just need to keep showing up.
🧠 Reconnect with Your "Why" (Often)
Your "why" isn't just a sentence for your personal statement. It's your anchor.
Ask yourself:
- Why do I want this life in the U.S.?
- What kind of dentist do I want to become?
- What kind of life do I want to build through this?
Write it down. Keep it somewhere visible. Because when you're tired, that “why” is what pulls you forward.
⚠️ Don't Let Rejections Define You
You might get rejected from a school. Or two. Or five.
It doesn't mean:
- You're not good enough
- You don't belong here
- You're wasting your time
It just means: you're still on the road; not at the wrong destination—just not there yet. Take feedback. Adjust. Reapply smarter. Your story isn't over—it's just getting better.
💬 Stop Comparing Yourself to Everyone Else
Yes, you'll see someone who got in faster. Yes, someone will pass INBDE in 3 months while you're on month 9. Yes, someone will already have the money, the visa, the support. Let it go. You're not behind—you're just on a different timeline. This is not a race. It's a mission. And it's yours.
🧘♀️ Create Micro-Moments of Peace
You don't need a full vacation to feel better. Sometimes, all you need is:
- A 20-minute walk
- A quick journal session
- A call with someone who believes in you
- A favorite playlist and a deep breath
This journey can take years. Protect your energy. Recharge often.
🙋♀️ Ask for Help Without Shame
This process is big. Heavy. Overwhelming. You weren't meant to carry it alone.
Talk to people. Join a support group. DM someone who's been through it. Ask for advice, help, mentorship—even if it's just emotional. There are people out there who get it. Let them in.
Final Reminder: You're Already Brave
You left your country. You started over. You kept going despite everything. You don't need more proof—you are already strong. Now it's just about continuing. Day by day. Step by step. No matter how long it takes. Because the version of you on the other side? They'll be proud you never gave up.
💌 Let's Stay Connected — You Don't Have to Do This Alone
I know how hard this journey can feel. That's why I share real talk, practical tips, and behind-the-scenes support across my channels — to help you feel less alone and more empowered.
📲 Instagram @dentist.abroad:
Where I share everyday moments, real-time updates, emotional support, and stories you'll relate to.
🎥 YouTube @dent.abroad:
This is where you'll find detailed blueprints, expert interviews, and everything you need to succeed—step by step.
📬 Questions? Want help?
DM me on Instagram or reach out anytime. I'm here—and if I can help, I will.
You've got this. And if you ever forget it—I'll be here to remind you. ❤️
Anna Papian
Dentist Abroad
Sharing my journey and insights to help other international dentists navigate the U.S. dental education system.

Anna Papian
Dentist Abroad
Sharing my journey and insights to help other international dentists navigate the U.S. dental education system.
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